Want a way to connect with others and make meaningful relationships? Give a long lost friend or relative a call. In a world of Facebook (which is great), we often forget that having conversations with people can be a much more meaningful way to stay in touch with the people who are important to us. So often, we only stay ‘in touch’ with people by taking a look at their online profiles and status updates. But this doesn’t give you the full picture. Calling someone can help you reconstruct the personal bonds of relationships that are so important.
You don’t have to schedule a time or send an email first. Calling out of the blue is fine. Let them know that you’ve been thinking about them and want to reconnect. Ask about their work situation, how their family is doing, where they live, and anything else you want to catch up on. It might seem awkward at first, but they will really appreciate knowing that you thought of them and wanted to reconnect. This is a wonderful way to build up your community.
