Oftentimes we think that it's not okay to be sad, to need help, to be lonely. However, it's really important for us to accept these feelings, to feel them out, to understand that it’s normal. Ignoring these feelings and deep emotions can be self-destructive.
It's also important for us to allow others to heal this way. Life is not always good. There are difficult times we have to confront. This makes us a deeper, more experienced, more nuanced people. Overcoming life's challenges requires facing up to the difficult times. We have to recognize that our lives are not always going to be perfect. There are going to be sad times. People are going to die. Jobs are going to be lost. Families are going to be decided. However, accept these difficult times, and enable yourself to move on into the future to the better things that lie ahead. This frees us from the bonds of the past and enables us to move into the future.